I appreciate you trusting me to advise and guide you. I also need to point out I am not qualified to advise or guide you. I am not a lawyer, counselor, or therapist. I am a millennial. We cant afford that stuff. I am just a woman who is married to a man with an ex-wife and a child. Any likeness in this blog which may resemble any real person is purely coincidental and all references are a work of fiction. So have a glass of wine and a few laughs with me. We are all friends here.